Stolen post from some anon on X.
Being a huge bitch used to be a fast way for women to signal they were high status
“Look how awful I can be. The fact people tolerate this implies I’m so desira...
Tons of insight here. There’s some outlier dynamics early on. Both sexes are drawn to those who are “different”. Once the herd forms, you need to move on, if that’s a strategy you choose to employ. Or pay little attention and everything works out (assuming you’re somewhat attractive)