Oof. So many people learning extremely hard lessons right now.
I swear I swing back and forth from 'this will teach so many people how to secure their stack! Nice!' to 'fuck this is devastating. Ima...
A great spouse would see the hiccup and move into gear to figuring things out and helping figure things out to get you back up. Because look at what y'all learned and how far you've come. It will be alright you will make it through this. . .1 baby step forward.