Choosing a wife is an economic decision. Just like choosing which car or house to buy. Choosing wrong will definitely cost you.

Are there any things that you thought would be important that are not, and vice verse? I’m making this decision now with someone Is why I’m so curious

No, it will only destroy your life if you let it. It is just one wrong fork along the pathway. We all fuck up. Some will moan about it and have lifelong regrets and others see it as an opportunity for a new beginning. What will destroy your life is staying married when you are unhappy. Always loo...