This lies with accounts you are following or the relay you are requesting. Anyway is a good setup of things you build for you. I think that I’ve saw a nostr:npub1eras6w483zu6ee8kewfdm97n72fdkfd4e8ujgch0d3jfycfflwhsytskz0 spell like this.

...and cats and yummy food and good music and people selling lovely homemade goodies

I can't zap you :(

Yes, it is. There are petty arguments from time to time, but it is usually nerd stuff and pineapple on pizza.