As a Christian, I strongly disagree. I row the boat and serve Christ. He steers. You can be dependent on Christ for mercy, guidance and strength while still being strong, wise and a sinner or saint.
I was Christian too but I've read Bible and I've seen how evil it is. I respect people, but if god exist I really, really want him to say out of my life. I prefer to take things for my own, help others instead of staying in place, praying, letting my boat without my control
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