a man is one who loves, provides and protects

a woman is one who is loved

by this definition most people are neither a man or a woman

and it has nothing to do with genitals

your gender is based on your relationship to others not on your chromosomes

no somebody with XY chromosomes can't give birth - but most biological women can't give birth either due to either being too young or too old - yet nobody says that they aren't women because of this

if somebody can be loved they can be a woman

if somebody can love, provide and protect they can be a man