nostr:nprofile1qy2hwumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnyd968gmewwp6kyqpqwahdrf28uf5n5tykfeyzf43sdgg65djvm8re3ulpentr3teaxujs9vt3h7 can I do both in a threesome?

NGL, I would either, and have, but #2 I'd be willing to invest much more effort courting.