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To be honest, I'm not really on-board with all that "dom/sub" thing, for all the talk about that online. I mean, I certainly understand how it works to *some* extent, I can talk about it, I got friends who are into that, it's their thing, it just isn't mine. I just don't think in categories like this when it comes to enjoying each other.

Am I too old? Do people still fuck as equals, or is it going out of style, and I need to get with the times?

Григорий Клюшников · 2w

To me, all that dom/sub thing is part of BDSM. Very much not everyone is into BDSM. I'm not into anything like this either, it's alien to me. And that's okay. Like with all other kinks, the only thing that's important is that these expectations should match between partners (or if your partner is in...

Винт Прокс · 2w

nostr:nprofile1qy2hwumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnyd968gmewwp6kyqpqj0rk6hwx893n4nc873qr3f864pslfa49s8x04nc84xnyqnygr73qw6mefp It's like fixating on being top or bottom and going around asking if sexual partner is one of the two. This is so close-minded and objectifying. Leaving a room to be role-free (a sort o...

mintbug · 2w

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Dr. Quadragon ❌ · 2w

Here's a proposal. Rename that grey area of "more conventional than BDSM but not really vanilla" to "pizza sex". Just like vanilla it's a staple, everyone knows what it looks like (in case of pizza, even without hard definition), the world almost universally agrees it's good, it's hard to fuck-up b...