That ain't a primal problem it's a nostr problem

Unless you need to know every new person following you, you could just turn off notifications for new follows.

Vertex could help you out guys cc nostr:nprofile1qqsgqke57uygxl0m8elstq26c4mq2erz3dvdtgxwswwvhdh0xcs04scpp4mhxue69uhkummn9ekx7mqpz4mhxue69uhkummnw3ezumrzv3jhvtnxw4hqy3wszm

you're on Odells Freedom Tech Signal list. people that select "follow all" will follow you at the start.

Also not a problem on nostr:nprofile1qqsdr0fnxvmn8hxyz8cwazfm8zu9yt7qmc38ll69nkvsgn8dnej4sxckxm0xe (using WoT). It's by far the most versatile desktop client also running on mobile (PWA).