me personally, i wouldn't have the first clue how to bump into a woman that doesn't make me want to scream at her about what a superficial, moronic twit she is. basically, this seems to be the equatio...
i'll be 40 soon and i'm coming to the conclusion that at a certain age we are just way to stuck in our ways to compromise with anyone else. it's hard to find right age, interests, etc and then layer on top of that someone who isn't addicted to phone or will be able to change habits.
i witnessed my mom in her 70s follow my father's advice to use her phone less. She was getting Reeled in by youtube. She followed it to my amazement. he still reads books, so maybe it's easier to listen to someone who follows his own advice.
however, i have more doubt about my peers. are we able to follow someone else's advice to get rid of bad habits? i'd have to get rid of my own before expecting someone to get rid of theirs.
i have another theory about men who build things... i think women are attracted to men with calloused hands. a friend said "no they are attracted to earning potential". definitely the ones worth attracting would be more of the former--but then we would have to build something.
i don't know if paper airplanes or model trains count.
i witnessed my mom in her 70s follow my father's advice to use her phone less. She was getting Reeled in by youtube. She followed it to my amazement. he still reads books, so maybe it's easier to listen to someone who follows his own advice.
however, i have more doubt about my peers. are we able to follow someone else's advice to get rid of bad habits? i'd have to get rid of my own before expecting someone to get rid of theirs.
i have another theory about men who build things... i think women are attracted to men with calloused hands. a friend said "no they are attracted to earning potential". definitely the ones worth attracting would be more of the former--but then we would have to build something.
i don't know if paper airplanes or model trains count.
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