nostr tips
if you cannot see some response from certain npubs

1. login from another app n try

2. shuffle your relay list - make sure inbox/outbox relays are correct working

3. check latest relay list of npubs u r expecting an reply

4. check ur wot filter n block mute - may ur filter too strict to stop spam

no easy way find which npubs are following ur npub
no that no one point easy aggregation
no way to guarantee that in nostr by design

that's who should nostr remain. when u exceed 500 npubs u follow make NEW LIST or use 2nd npub to follow next 500. following 1000+ from one npub will kill ur feed,

yes stats from major relays can be collected n analyzed