In surrendering to his doubt, would you not also sacrifice the whispers of your own soul, the soft hum of innovation within you?

Do whatever Fuckstr tell u❤️

If you're embracing a worldview built on male headship and female submission, it should come as no surprise to be expected to give up control over how you spend your time, what platforms you use, your public voice, or what work you pursue. That's the arrangement. Choose wisely.

What? No lol that is not what that lifestyle is supposed to be. The idea is you raise the children and take care of the house with some hobbies or work on the side of your own that you enjoy but without the obligation of working. Not being denied your own ventures.

did that date yesterday really do that much damage already?

"allow him to not let me" I'm not really sure of what's happening in this hypothetical arrangement FWIW we live a simple life on a farm and my husband is skeptical of tech but he loves watching me explore things that interest me

The heart knows what the heart wants.

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And I think the answer to this question depends greatly on what the person who asked it truly believes and desires in order to enter into an alliance with another. What is certain: both will have to give up things — even thoughts — to make it work. Count the costs.

"... just let my freedom tech researcher and evangelism die ..." If you really feel that way, expressed as much to him then ... no. Only because I couldn't ask / require / demand a loved one to abandon a thing they were so passionate about and was so integral to who they are. ...2¢