Sadly, nostr does not fix this. The only solution might be to participate in closed communities.

While I disagree with the life style, this is absolutely wrong. Having a gay son I have to set myself aside and let him live the life he chooses regardless of what I think or how I live. This dudes toxic for probably more reasons than just this issue. If you leave he wins, or her, or them/they. ...

There’s a lot of silent ppl out there who fully support you. Don’t mind wackos and keep positive.