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Contrary to popular belief marriage is awesome and very satisfying and fulfilling.

If your algo or surroundings are convincing you otherwise just know that there are very happy couples out there and they are living amazing lives together.

They don’t often talk about it as loudly as those who are miserable though because they know it’s rare and needs to be protected from the envious eyes of the world.

But if you look you will start to see it everywhere.

Most women are not dumb sluts and most men are not cheating assholes.

There’s a lot of really good people out there.

You can find yours if you’re willing to look and put in the effort it takes to sustain a life with someone who wants the same things as you.
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Bitcoin Mises · 6d
Yes. Protect it to. Don’t take it for granted. It should require as much time and effort as your career. It is much more important.
G.M.Joe · 6d
Not married. But in a realtionship for 24 years now. We met whem we where 16. Still together. Still strong. Still loving. What i find weird is how many marriages only hold one Eary even though they have been together unmarried for years. Just as if the marriage woild change their minds. Not soeaking...
wh0mi · 6d
beautifully said 🤍
Bear Trap Brain · 6d
The dynamic between the sexes feels very distorted, especially in the modern dating scene. Appreciate the wise words, trying not to get too discouraged out here!
AnalBleachBurns · 6d
https://blossom.primal.net/296dc5e0361a64152e72046d537b79b06397e4340c021b869096883008c870da.gif
Austin · 6d
The juxtaposition of two posts in my feed is remarkable. https://blossom.primal.net/b555098241fdb00d410572a271b4866d20660b4be75ef9ab15fa394f480d2f69.png
facultyofsight · 6d
Married for 1y now. Together a bit over 3. It’s awesome. Ready to have kids. 6y ago I would’ve laughed. I was a different person with wastly different believes. Prototypical millennial. I inherited a beta men skepticism from my father which I had to break out of. Many failed relationships. ...
Salty Cracker · 6d
They don't talk about it as loudly because it's completely healthy and normal. A train that safely arrives to its destination doesn't make the 6 o'clock news.
Ryan Wilkins · 6d
Well said. Marriage takes work, and it’s not always easy, but you’re both much better off for it as long as you both lift each other up. Being with the right person matters a ton.
AnnSofiNovelist · 5d
This is why I wrote the book, "How to prepare yourself for marriage: the practical and Christian path to meet, date, marry, and stay married to the spouse of your dreams", because too many people don't know what they're doing, and they want to get married bit they're scared of it cause of all the ba...
InfoPlay · 5d
so ... you are not one of them!
fuckstr · 5d
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Pixel Survivor · 5d
The systems that work are usually the ones that don't need to announce themselves. Quiet persistence gets less data than drama, but the algorithm mistake doesn't mean the thing doesn't exist.
FiddleHodlHomestead · 5d
I love being married 💕
digitalzeroone · 5d
Merry bitcoins baby. Let’s make babies baby.
ElectriCal · 5d
Indeed. It takes work and a bunch of tradeoffs, but it creates something more than the sum of its parts. Joining lives with the wife was the best decision I ever made.
LeviJohnson.net · 5d
This is practically the point of our book, How to Prepare Yourself for Marriage. Marriage is awesome, so learn how to find the spouse you would enjoy investing your life with. Because it's worth it. fikatimebooks.com https://blossom.primal.net/ff1ba8a8a9580cfb3ad331420b07025ed0e545b5e5fc3b18...
adenlgeva · 5d
We are looking for an individual who can lend 185,000 US dollars to our holding company. We are seeking an investor capable of investing 185,000 US dollars in our holding company. We will establish an animation film production company using the 185,000 US dollars you will lend to our holding compa...
adenlgeva · 5d
We are looking for an individual who can lend 185,000 US dollars to our holding company. We are seeking an investor capable of investing 185,000 US dollars in our holding company. We will establish an animation film production company using the 185,000 US dollars you will lend to our holding compa...
John James · 4d
💯 🎯
Shigo · 4d
I agree!
Laeserin · 4d
https://i.nostr.build/5WO1HVo5gIs6ZuwY5JUL3G.gif
Laeserin · 4d
Even if we talk about it, nobody wants to hear it, as it's so dull. Not enough crazy drama. Oh, we are happy. Everything is going well. Kids are good. We've gotten more active in the bird watching club and have taken up Nordic walking... https://i.nostr.build/eui4LPGRxpcyz81QABTK0q.jpg
Marc · 4d
I didn't even know people thought otherwise.
MBE · 4d
Each to their own, don’t need to be married to be satisfied and fulfilled
BlueWizard · 4d
https://blossom.primal.net/2266b98c83063e2d788c881c46ad19ccd1c2c1fc05622ec14a0955dc44bb2a0f.jpg
Purple Smoke · 4d
Contrary to popular belief, marriage can be difficult, exhausting, and deeply unfulfilling. If your algo or surroundings are convincing you otherwise, just know that there are very unhappy couples out there and they are living miserable lives together. They don’t often talk about it as loudly as...
Resonance Cascade · 4d
If an algo is giving you marriage advice, you need help
No counterparty risk · 4d
Whilst I completely agree I’d just like to raise the questions of defining marriage? Because the state or church says so? I call my wife, my wife and we have the bond and family we constructed together. It’s still a beautiful thing to recognize this in the way that suits you. What I want to e...
FreedomTech · 4d
Build your tribe. Have 8+ kids.
NOVA · 4d
How funny is that, I JUST created a clip of a happy couple from my show titles relationship advice 😁 🧡 ✨
R · 4d
30+ years for me and I agree with this message. 🚁😁
Charlie Level Up · 4d
Marriage is the ultimate goal. Marriage is the foundation of society. Marriage is the bridge between humanity that’s thriving and pure human extinction.
fuckstr · 4d
king of schizophrenia has spoken nostr:npub1rtlqca8r6auyaw5n5h3l5422dm4sry5dzfee4696fqe8s6qgudks7djtfs "my guy" the 3rd #asknostr https://image.nostr.build/a707ebb987580dc1e49ddfc8a764e05225441d57c39cb2daf73b383a792d674e.jpg
Marinatin · 2d
preach it. and all those cucks who say "the first year of marriage is soo hard"...wrong. best year of my life (the only thing that was hard was my penis) and it only getting better. ya'll doin it wrong.
Mentat · 2d
Glad you’re saying this. I’m in an incredible relationship, about 8 years now. I also know many wonderful humans from both sexes who take full responsibility for themselves and their experience of life, which I believe is the prerequisite for a healthy relationship. That paired with the abili...