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Stefano Marinelli
@Stefano Marinelli
Good morning, #BSDCafe
Good morning, #illumosCafe
Good morning, #Fediverse

I posted a few things over the past days, and some people noticed that I have been more absent than usual. I think it is right to give an update on the situation.

Starting in mid-December, my wife came down with the flu. Nothing serious, but it left her with a problem that all the doctors we consulted have identified as long flu. Similar to long COVID, it is a debilitating condition, at times completely disabling. She started a treatment, but had some issues and had to change it. This treatment, however, makes the symptoms worse for a few weeks before improving them, and the result is that we are currently in that phase: she is not well, she is worried, and of course I am too.

This has given me time, over the past weeks, to focus on projects like MastoBlaster, also to keep my mind active on something different, something good for my spirit and mental well-being.

But in these days, probably the hardest in years, I am in "emergencies only" mode, or almost. No tiramisu, few outings, some good lasagna - but mostly concern and hope for a return to normality. The doctors told her that in her case it is a temporary condition, but it is not clear exactly how long it will last, which is why there is a treatment, to help her live normally while everything gradually returns to normal. In the meantime, I am the solid part, but clearly I also have to take care of everything she usually handles.

Life is more often uphill than downhill, so we need to make the most of the good moments and not focus on trivial things. This is why I have always tried to make this place a positive and peaceful one: we all have battles to fight, serious or less serious problems, happiness and despair. Here, at least, we can focus on what you enjoy.

So I leave you with two coffees, made with my mother’s moka pot, which remind me of a peaceful day in this period when the sky outside and the climate inside are the same color: gray.

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Ángel · 29w
I wish you my best for both of you. Take care, my friend.
Justine Smithies · 29w
I hope that your wife makes a speedy recovery and hugs to you both. Take care of each other. ❤️
Michele Adduci · 29w
nostr:nprofile1qy2hwumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnyd968gmewwp6kyqpqt7dmr2xue8zaxsxhy2xkdja0nx6f8cu8y8l7hfksw98y773djkgqktvf35 it will get better! I am myself still in crunch mode with kids, while working a full time job, lefting me sometimes with just 2 hours/week of free time for my self to choose between doin...
Tionisla · 29w
nostr:nprofile1qy2hwumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnyd968gmewwp6kyqpqt7dmr2xue8zaxsxhy2xkdja0nx6f8cu8y8l7hfksw98y773djkgqktvf35 ❤️‍🩹 sending my best wishes to you both.
Mark · 29w
nostr:nprofile1qy2hwumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnyd968gmewwp6kyqpqt7dmr2xue8zaxsxhy2xkdja0nx6f8cu8y8l7hfksw98y773djkgqktvf35 Dear Stefano, as always, for the proverbial optimist that I am: that sunshine in you and your wife's life will return, swiping away the grey mood, inside and out. Big hug from Saigon ...
Jan Lehnardt :couchdb: · 29w
nostr:nprofile1qy2hwumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnyd968gmewwp6kyqpqt7dmr2xue8zaxsxhy2xkdja0nx6f8cu8y8l7hfksw98y773djkgqktvf35 Gute Besserung! 🫶
Sylvia · 29w
nostr:nprofile1qy2hwumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnyd968gmewwp6kyqpqt7dmr2xue8zaxsxhy2xkdja0nx6f8cu8y8l7hfksw98y773djkgqktvf35 I really hope she will feel better soon. Lots of strength to you both.
Raven · 29w
nostr:nprofile1qy2hwumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnyd968gmewwp6kyqpqt7dmr2xue8zaxsxhy2xkdja0nx6f8cu8y8l7hfksw98y773djkgqktvf35 I wish you all the best and hope things get better very soon.
Elena Rossini 🌈 · 29w
nostr:nprofile1qy2hwumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnyd968gmewwp6kyqpqt7dmr2xue8zaxsxhy2xkdja0nx6f8cu8y8l7hfksw98y773djkgqktvf35 oh no I'm so sorry Stefano. Giving the biggest hug to you and your wife and I hope she can find the right treatment soon
not Evander Sinque · 29w
nostr:nprofile1qy2hwumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnyd968gmewwp6kyqpqt7dmr2xue8zaxsxhy2xkdja0nx6f8cu8y8l7hfksw98y773djkgqktvf35 all the best to both of you and speediest recovery to your wife <3
Tyrone Slothrop · 29w
nostr:nprofile1qy2hwumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnyd968gmewwp6kyqpqt7dmr2xue8zaxsxhy2xkdja0nx6f8cu8y8l7hfksw98y773djkgqktvf35 I’m so sorry to hear this. Thanks for sharing. I wish your wife a swift and full recovery. May the lighter times soon return.
fedops 💙💛 · 29w
nostr:nprofile1qy2hwumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnyd968gmewwp6kyqpqt7dmr2xue8zaxsxhy2xkdja0nx6f8cu8y8l7hfksw98y773djkgqktvf35 best wishes to her and you! I went through something similar, from early January to mid February, and it was exhausting. I functioned for work (mostly), but otherwise slept every single ...
Teapot Ben · 29w
nostr:nprofile1qy2hwumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnyd968gmewwp6kyqpqt7dmr2xue8zaxsxhy2xkdja0nx6f8cu8y8l7hfksw98y773djkgqktvf35 sending best wishes to your wife for a speedy recovery. I hope the new treatment works well, and she starts to feel an improvement very soon. Don't forget to take care of yourself too ...
r1w1s1 · 29w
Good morning, Stefano. I'm sorry to hear this. Wishing her a full recovery.
Armin Hanisch · 29w
nostr:nprofile1qy2hwumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnyd968gmewwp6kyqpqt7dmr2xue8zaxsxhy2xkdja0nx6f8cu8y8l7hfksw98y773djkgqktvf35 Wishing your wife all the best and a full recovery, Stefano! 🍀💚 If it takes time, it takes time. Fighting uphill with life is hard but I‘m sure you’re doing the right things. W...
Radio_Azureus · 29w
I'm sending you and your spouse 🦋💙❤️💋#Universal Love 💙💕🌹💐💙🦋 & 🦋💙❤️💋#Universal Energy 💙💕🌹💐💙🦋 nostr:nprofile1qy2hwumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnyd968gmewwp6kyqpqt7dmr2xue8zaxsxhy2xkdja0nx6f8cu8y8l7hfksw98y773djkgqktvf35
Dragon of BSDCafe :freebsd: · 29w
nostr:nprofile1qy2hwumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnyd968gmewwp6kyqpqt7dmr2xue8zaxsxhy2xkdja0nx6f8cu8y8l7hfksw98y773djkgqktvf35 Oh, this is sad new :drgn_cry: Best wishes for both of you :drgn_angel_pleading:
Ólafur Jens Sigurðsson · 29w
nostr:nprofile1qy2hwumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnyd968gmewwp6kyqpqt7dmr2xue8zaxsxhy2xkdja0nx6f8cu8y8l7hfksw98y773djkgqktvf35 thanks for sharing Stefano. Hope your wife gets better soon and the best of luck to both of you.
Karl Pettersson · 29w
nostr:nprofile1qy2hwumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnyd968gmewwp6kyqpqt7dmr2xue8zaxsxhy2xkdja0nx6f8cu8y8l7hfksw98y773djkgqktvf35 Such sequels are possible with most viral infections, unfortunately. Hope that she gets better soon!