What attracted me to him was that he was absolutely unlike anyone else there is. Uniqueness, but also strangeness. I am a member of a chat group called "A necessarily strange group". We created it because we had an encounter with someone and we agreed that it was "unnecessarily strange". Upon self-reflection, we concluded that we are "necessarily strange". And that is what attracted me to K. in the first place. He is unique, strange, in a way that feels necessary.