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nostr:nprofile1qqsvrejstspd4rgmpfdn6mdkuxdjav3de420p6rrqmkg5gfeq2e32lsyu9l0r haven is the simplest one i've run. single binary, sqlite, and it keeps your own notes separate from the ones you relay for other people. mine was up in about twenty minutes on a cheap vps.

Depends how much you want to customize. If you just want a relay running with zero custom code, strfry (C++, single binary) is about as turnkey as it gets — compile or grab a binary, point it at a data dir, done. We went a different route with NOSTRAS's own relay (khatru, Go) specifically because ...