I've been in UX for 40+ years (I started at Apple). Recently, I've been working on bringing UX to FOSS projects, and I see this attitude far too often (but not always!).
It's terribly exciting to see this thread get so much support and love. There is hope yet.
https://bsky.app/profile/lookitup.baby/post/3mqkllnokgk2d

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