indeed. If we are to be Kings and Queens of our households, we must pick Kings and Queens as our partners. Nobility and honor are for every person under God.

The model of the patriarch is the King. Not as absolute ruler, capricious and cruel, but as a representative of Gods will on Earth, where patience, wisdom, justice, gentle-ness, and vision are shown to to kinfolk and iron will capable of deadly violence shown to enemies--unbending and courageous in the face of threat.