Damus
HODL profile picture
HODL
@HODL
You know that widely held statistic about how 50% of all marriages end in divorce?

Not quite.

About 60% of all first marriages succeed.

If you are over 25, college educated and have low financial stress the number jumps to 80%.

The data is skewed heavily by baby boomers (higher divorce rates) and serial divorcees. Roughly 70% of second and third marriages fail.

Despite current cultural beliefs marriage is good and healthy and on average creates higher satisfaction in both men and women who participate in it.
31
Brian Hirschfield · 13w
I assure you that whatever the real data is - Bitcoin will increase the divorce rate significantly in the next 50 years. Bitcoin will wreck all institutions - especially relationship oriented institutions - until we figure out how to rebuild them around its existence.
John · 13w
How much did big marriage pay you
₿𝓲𝓽00 · 13w
This is the kind of signal worth boosting. Marriage is not a failed institution. It is proof of work for love, family, discipline, and long-term thinking. The doom narrative gets clicks because despair is easy to sell. But commitment builds trust. Trust builds families. Families build civilizati...
Myntad · 13w
Good nuance
Scott ••• · 13w
Marriage is not always a happy experience, and it requires hard work, but is profoundly rewarding. Statistics showing how many of ANYTHING fail are meant to steer people away from trying.
Humility · 13w
I’ve never heard this counter argument or these numbers relating to healthy marriage before. It’s interesting and sounds correct, is there a place you can point for us to look into the data?
Rigatoni · 13w
Good insight and a real breath of fresh air. Thank you
NickHeyden · 13w
https://blossom.primal.net/17cdcd31739606777d138b2ec3b4b8623e1c01e45ae170fefcd32e50a20b1747.gif
AllieBlue ☉ · 13w
Thats a similar track to abortion. The 1 in 3 number has a hyperbolic curve bias as well; most females who have had one abortion has had least 3 in her lifetime. Chances are also much high that due to advertising and location of abortion centers, she probably is a minor black female who was raped by...
KrP · 13w
Low financial stress? In this economy?
mrclownworld · 13w
Pictured: the low financial stress https://image.nostr.build/3ed054ecefe0d69a41a4c47ac8c4625090970683036603688181c0638513b41d.jpg
binmucker · 13w
I saw something the other day that said couples who make out 30 seconds every day get divorced less. My toddlers roll their eyes, but I’ve enjoyed kissing my lady for 30+ seconds everyday
nobody · 13w
Most people don’t understand their innate power so they have a need to be in a codependent relationship. And most suffer in the codependency because they’re relying on others to feel whole. In the higher planes of existence hardly anyone pairs up because they understand they are gods.
The Stacker Monster · 13w
so 50% of all marriages end in divorce... right?
fuckstr · 13w
nostr:nevent1qqsvz5qerjfxwmhwr7zazf9f3kd5ydcgsapwmqm4l5dywjsxj2w0rjszyrt3qru7xpuuhqpmugnwrxpxn0u64rg7w4md07lz0gqf5wshszlzyqcyqqqqqqgk90xhe
kepford · 13w
That adds up. I don't have a single good friend that is divorced. None in my gen X friend group. I know several boomers though and no gen y divorced. Many of these couples had divorced parents though. Most are on 10 plus years. Kinda wild really
tomé · 13w
Comfort kills nostr:nevent1qqsdkgez6zdzd28ee7m26yg5w7wmkg8hx3d2e2048d5td7x2zru2xtsvh3vlj
mandalorianhodl · 13w
married guy here. dude, it‘s great. but there a serious downsides. send help
OFFGRID · 12w
Boy I swear every girl I meet makes my life so much more difficult. It's like they prefer to be a pet. I guess if I don't get married, then I can't get divorced. I keep busy.
Highsselhoff · 12w
In a relationship for 25 years. Engaged for 15 years. Married for 8 days. ❤️