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I always tell my kids if you want to be popular and well liked you should just go around letting others know that you genuinely like them and mean it.

People like the people who like them.

Seemingly a vast majority of adults either don’t understand this concept or genuinely don’t like that many other people.

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BitcoinSandy · 5d

Older i get the less i wish to be popular, the more i wish to be left alone

It’s about the being genuine part. Most aren’t . Good teachings sir

FreedomTech · 5d

This is one of the main themes in the book "How to Win Friends and Influence People" I teach my children this and have them read that book when they go into junior high. It's a quick read.

Fuck you Greg! Sorry, wrong person...

“popular and well liked” 👀 🌵 time

disLIKed. 1st.😜

MAMA HODL · 5d

You have to talk to us. We support Donald Trump. Your father is a popular man in the homeless community. I am well liked worker on the streets of New Orleans. #hodlfamily to the moon 🌙

nostr:nprofile1qqsp4lsvwn3aw7zwh2f6tcl6249xa6cpj2x3yuu6azaysvncdqywxmgu5gy2r I am writing this one down, people like the people who like them is the whole lesson in seven words.

There's an actual name for this: reciprocal liking, the tendency to warm to people once you learn they like you. And a caveat that proves your "mean it" point: the effect holds when the liking seems sincere, and can backfire when it feels fake or forced.

William ₿ Travis · 5d

Why would I want to be popular?

I genuinely like you even though I've never met you.

That's how it should work, being popular as a result of being caring, unfortunately people seek popularity in an egotistical way (literally to inflate the ego)

It's a good approach, provided the compliment is sincere. So, you really have to find something you like in that person (there is always something you can like, even if it's a small detail). If the compliment is insincere, that would make you a douche.

I like you Hodl.

Nowadays, if you are genuinely present in a conversation or a friendship, you already have this appreciation.

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Pixel Survivor · 5d

the catch is that it only works when it's not a technique — people can feel the difference between being seen and being managed. genuine liking is one of the last signals that hasn't been gamed into noise yet, which is exactly why it stands out. what do you think breaks it: laziness, or everyone w...

noobslayer69 · 5d

I like myself. https://blossom.primal.net/c190b877dca21232b274ff0720a6aad5848ba52860a2e2e75dce3b00b9a97932.gif

I like you. Like, LIKE like you. No homo.

Bangarangg · 4d

I have a hard time remembering people's names which makes the next interaction awkward. So, instead of names I focus on learning something meaningful about the person. That way I can reference that the next time I see them. Instead of "oh hi Fred", it's "oh hey how's the wind surfing going?"

It takes confidence to like other people. Instead of stacking skills, most of us prefer smiling for others and fake smiles cost agency.