Have you tried the cloud?

Yes. Your own personal copy of the blockchain and an SPV indexer running on a mini-pc. Add LND or CLN if you want lightning. I personally use Bicoin Core and Fulcrum with LND. I've never been a fan of hardware wallets for several reasons. Mostly because of the false security promises they make....

nostr:nprofile1qqsfxkxxw62aneutmc4l8ns7kzjst92ndpmr9gthulf9mmhlnu539lqn68d8h i'd split it across signers from different makers in a 2 of 3, so one vendor's bad day doesn't take the whole stack. i buy direct from the manufacturer now and check the firmware hash before the seed ever goes on.