@nprofile1q... you know the tricky thing with english is, you think you speak it, but you don't. there is english dialect, there is english accent, there is english vernacular, and then there is a secret fourth form of english that e.g. makes nerds and frat boys have a difficult time communicating with each other.

they think it's about lifestyle or feelings or viewpoint or philosophy, the reason why they don't get each other but it's really just the foreign form in which information is being delivered.