Are we talking online or in real life?

I just generally don’t celebrate my birthday at all…

to be honest, i just wanna post "it's my birthday" without worrying, but i know i should worry 🙀

The only real birthday here is your Nostr birthday. 😜

Some identities are slightly more rugged than others

It depends on why and to what degree you want to make this specific fact private. Depends on what you are risking if the fact leaks out. What are you risking in the potential future as well. Descartes Square might partially help with the decision if you're looking for an abstract tool. Many people ...

I dont!!

You make like Royalty and declare / celebrate your "official" birthday separately to your day of actual birth

I just do what I normally do offline on my birthday. I just treat it like a normal day, though I do buy something for myself.