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Dreiberge · 1w
Sometimes it’s not so easy to stay true to your values. When I say yes to something, I want it to be a genuine yes, not a disguised no. And I think it’s okay to do something you don’t particular...
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My gut says say no. And if you care about the family member arrange to see them in a setting that suits you. Learnt this from my son. Who plucked up courage to say family Christmases are not for him. Fair enough. Radical honesty. The only way for truly deep and meaningful relationships. And who needs the other kinds anyway?

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The Bitcoin Edge · 1w
Love this Rachel. My brother is similar. He often joins us the week before instead.
Dreiberge · 1w
I don’t find those kinds of decisions difficult either. When I was 22, I decided that I would never celebrate Christmas with my family again. I had very good reasons for that! Things had gone way beyond what I was willing to tolerate. It gets trickier when the gatherings are actually quite nice, n...