Power to you!! That's what my friend is doing too. And yes, you're totally right on the not many people are having babies anymore. Where I live out in rural TN even, which, being part of the "Bible Belt" I'd think it'd be different. Birth rates across the entire globe are dropping, it's actually no...

Also, one of my friends who had 4 kids says she loved not knowing the gender throughout her pregnancy- that it helped carry her through the actual birth to have that excitement and also she loved playing the name game 🥰