it kind of freaks me out sometimes how good my wife is. like as a person. her default settings lean toward finding the humor and beauty in situations, things, and people. kindness. like i am encouraging and look for the best in people. but i can also be a serious SOB. she makes me pay more attention to kindness. just dont walk too slow in market isles in front of her or walk slowly in front of her car as shes trying to leave parking lots is all im saying. 😂