🔹"What should I use for my outbox/write relays?"

ℹ️ You need to be able to publish notes there, because it's where people will be looking for your notes

👍 Yes!
- Private relays you pay for.
- Public relays.
- Relays you control.

🔹"What should I use for my inbox/read relays?"

ℹ️ Other people should be able to publish notes there, because it's where they will send notes, zaps & reactions for you.

👍 Yes!
- Public relays.
- Relays you control and allow public access to.

👎 No!
- Private relays.

ℹ️ Pick 3 for each. Any more is just a waste of bandwidth for you and everyone trying to read your notes.

🔹"What relays should I never use for inbox/outbox?"

Search, DM & Index relays
- hist.nostr.land
- user.kindpag.es
- indexer.coracle.social
- purplepag.es
- relay.0xchat.com
- auth.nostr1.com
- relay.noswhere.com
- search.nos.today