There is a distinct energetic difference between a man pleasuring you because he gets off seeing you get off.

And a man pleasuring you because he enjoys your body and the process.

An attuned woman can feel the slight transactionality of the former.

And before the men jump at me in the comments, I am not saying being turned on by her being turned on is wrong or shouldn’t happen. It’s beautiful and hot. But can you feel the slight difference between the two?