Toxic people can derail any group, focus on like-minded individuals who share your values.

I'm an paladin transmogged as a bisexual autistic orc

Oh I definitely know how hard it is. Putting online adds on reddit and dndbeyond, I get one normal person out of 25 wackos. LGBT (mostly young males wanting to be females) I can’t handle nor other regarded people. Heavy screening first is needed or the whole table is in jeopardy.

i totally can. and i totally can say that at age 14 the crowd that played was already quite ghey. one of them even liked to call me "evil ed" because i look like evil ed. which is pretty cool, i'd almost get a haircut to fulfil that.

You could always just honey pot the weirdos and then try to redpill them with edits or by reading camp of the saints to them.

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