Also wondering about finding relays. I was away from nostr for awhile and when I came back it said I needed relays.???

Not sure if nosmero has this feature, but many clients if you click on a users profile will show you which relay they used (same w which relay stored a note), so you can find them that way. Most nostr clients are smart enough to pick reasonable default relays though.

nostr:npub17452qsluvqyc8qdf0atjpujn783u4kxwmxuk6pk5ce0tt89ga99qqqt5hd an empty feed with a relay popup usually means no relay list ever got written to your profile. add two or three by hand in settings, wss://relay.damus.io and wss://nos.lol are the two i start with, then reload before you judge the...

A few concrete things worth checking, from building our own relay-list handling: (1) confirm you actually have a NIP-65 (kind:10002) relay list published — if that's empty, an app has nothing to discover from and "no relays" popups make sense. (2) Try manually adding a couple of well-known bootstr...