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Erik Cason
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Becoming older really has its gifts. While there has been a lot of pain, turmoil, and hard lessons; I’m finally old enough to learn from all of the difficulties rather than just repeating them over and over.

I’m finally finding the solidity and grace to simply be unapologetically who I am, rather than trying to be someone I am not. It’s refreshing—I’ve been longing to find this place in myself for most of adulthood and excited what I am going to do with it, not just for myself, but for my family, friends, and for the world.
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HODL · 45w
Completely agree. Finally at the rather be hated for who I am than loved for who I’m not stage. The big lesson for me? No one cares. You have infinite runway to speed off in any direction you choose.
Chris · 45w
This is the REAL Self Sovereignty brother. There is hope for humanity 💓😉
Dan · 45w
How would you act how you are not ? Or what would you hide from others. I’m trying to find this for myself for some things
MrTea · 45w
To quote Lil Wayne - “I’m a pick the world up and I’m a drop it on yo fucking head”
Jesse · 45w
Welcome to the 2nd half of life. Some people never reach this part of the journey.
R · 45w
💯. Ideally you have some grey hair. Grey hair lets people know we’re wise to their BS and unlikely to be swayed, so they just let us be. Never hide the grey🚁😀
Kingbee · 45w
I'm there also. Shouldn't take this long to come that epiphany.
Jared_Proof of Heart · 45w
Love to hear it. Thanks for sharing. I'm on the same journey, although in the early innings of it. Care to share something specific about yourself that you've come to truly own? I'm working on accepting that the old me from pre-covid times—well-liked, super social, and naive—is dead and gon...
helen. · 45w
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db · 45w
Congrats man. It is nice, as we age, we gain confidence and an ability to be secure in who we really are. It’s freeing to not have to pretend to be someone we’re not. As far as knowledge goes though, I just grabbed the hot oven rack a couple weeks ago. Maybe that comes later lol
Chakaruna (Bridge Person) · 45w
Let’s get you, nostr:npub1cqm6dztalp4l6n04f9k20c333xftgangjla337736dr6faz9na0qf2hjec, nostr:npub15vzuezfxscdamew8rwakl5u5hdxw5mh47huxgq4jf879e6cvugsqjck4um, nostr:npub1rtlqca8r6auyaw5n5h3l5422dm4sry5dzfee4696fqe8s6qgudks7djtfs back in a banter pod.
Ken Berry, MD · 45w
This is correct! It's quite possible that the positives of getting older outweigh the negatives, if you play it right...
MickBurke · 45w
Had the same experience. Spent most of my life being who I was 'supposed to be', and the last ten or so being me (and figuring out who that is!). Well worth the journey!
₿oniz23⚡️🏴‍☠️🇮🇹 · 45w
The most beautiful words you said that now you know who you are or you no longer have to pretend to be who you are not. Wonderful deduction. I think that was your turning point friend
BBG · 45w
I’m on the same journey as you brother 🫡