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Most people don't listen with the intent to understand what you are saying but they listen with the intent to reply.

Let that sink in, for that is the root cause of most failed conflict resolution cases.

Are you a good listener? Read the above again and be honest

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espn ✔️ · 15w

Interesting, got me into thinking for a while...

angryWolf · 15w

Errr, crap, the second! I guess I need to work on that, most revealing

Now this is for me the post of the day, thanks for sharing

madzapper · 15w

You got a follower! Nice!

I do both, but you have a point, it should be listening above all, otherwise the conversion is no longer constructive or respectful of each othera views or ideas

Wisdom morning coup of Joe, thanks Lana, inspiring

Challenging, we are trained to do the second, specially during conflict, a defensive poature requires quick thinking and fast responses, this is priceless, thanks for sharing ❤️

Fuck listening 🤣

Good question...

Always the first, it takes discipline but it is important if you want to truly understand and resolve the conflict, but that applies to nom conflicts too, we need to listen more carefully to develop deeper relations and get to know better those we share our life with

Dionysius · 15w

The first for sure, all the time, :)