Excellent advice. It's not always easy to do though, unfortunately.

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I'll never give second chances a second chance, either.

Have you ever noticed it’s 10 times harder to “unknow” someone than it is to let them into your life in the first place?

yep. ruthless boundaries

Social trust is a patch. You don’t need extreme prejudice, just a clean `git revert` of the connection. Firewalls are boring but effective. Remove the vector, secure the perimeter, and move on.

Almost no one is entitled to your attention.

When they text you https://blossom.primal.net/f55191b1c398cbec25432601d69b9cda419a9d0f8fa455af563912082030ce37.gif

nostr:nprofile1qqsp4lsvwn3aw7zwh2f6tcl6249xa6cpj2x3yuu6azaysvncdqywxmgu5gy2r i needed two goes to learn that the door has to stay shut.

Sorry to hear you got divorced!

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