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" THE PSYCHOLOGY BEHIND PEOPLE WHO DON'T CARE ABOUT THEIR OWN BIRTHDAYS "



THEIR RELATIONSHIP WITH BIRTHDAYS OFTEN COMES FROM CHILDHOOD. IF EARLY BIRTHDAYS WERE FORGOTTEN, STRESSFUL, OR EMOTIONALLY HEAVY, THE DAY LOSES ITS MEANING LATER IN LIFE.

FOR SOME, IT'S JUST ANOTHER DAY. THEY UNDERSTAND THEIR OWN VALUE AND DON'T RELY ON A SPECIFIC DATE TO FEEL SPECIAL. THEIR HAPPINESS ISN'T TIED TO EXTERNAL EVENTS OR RITUALS.

BIRTHDAYS REMIND THEM OF TIME PASSING-GOALS UNFINISHED, MILESTONES MISSED, OR PRESSURE TO "BE FURTHER AHEAD."

RECEIVING LOVE IS HARD FOR THEM. WHEN SOMEONE STRUGGLES WITH SELF WORTH, BEING CELEBRATED CAN FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE INSTEAD OF SPECIAL.

SOME PEOPLE FEEL UNEASY WHEN ALL ATTENTION IS DIRECTED AT THEM. A BIRTHDAY DOESN'T FEEL JOYFUL; IT FEELS OVERWHELMING.


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AJ2884 · 2w
I've had a bit of reputation for being a birthday curmudgeon, but I've put it that my birthday is like sex, I like it, but if I get to work and everyone's all "Surprise, now this is happening to you!", I'm not going to be super stoked. I want some say in who's going to be involved and what we're goi...
Wyatt Usurp · 2w
I feel this way about my birthdays. But the reasoning seems like the opposite. My family was incrediblely wonderful and celebrated each and every birthday. Now it makes me think it was all too much and that's why I don't want anyone but my closest family to even say the words to me...