Sorry Odell, I understand the concern about growth and retention, but I don't think Nostr should be judged by the same metrics as traditional social media.
Many people will come to Nostr out of curiosity and then leave. That's normal. They're used to platforms that optimize every detail to keep users engaged, shape behavior, and maximize time spent online.
Those who are genuinely looking for freedom, ownership of their identity, censorship resistance, and an open protocol are more likely to stay, even when the experience isn't perfect.
Nostr doesn't need to appeal to everyone. Not everyone is looking for the same thing. Some people prioritize convenience and established networks; others are willing to accept a bit more friction in exchange for greater sovereignty and independence.
If thousands of users have come and gone, that doesn't necessarily mean Nostr has failed. It means they discovered what it offers and decided it wasn't what they were looking for. Those who value digital freedom will remain, contribute, and help build something different.