headpat art is cute and all but don’t ever translate it to IRL behavior. Headpats are distincly jappy, they’re standoffish and don’t like intimate touching as much.

Americans are “huggers” to foreigners, we have a lot less distance as a norm, so you don’t have to settle for headpats - which aren’t enjoyable, girls hate you messing up their hair.

I’m more for back scratches, people tend to like those in my bunch. Headpats IRL are uncomfortable