nostr:npub108pv4cg5ag52nq082kd5leu9ffrn2gdg6g4xdwatn73y36uzplmq9uyev6 it was so bad with Nextcloud that they stopped supporting it and made people use MySql or Postgres

That link doesn't support your case. PostgreSQL beat SQLite on every metric he tried. And he kept PostgreSQL's hands tied behind it's back by using only the intersection of features via an ORM and barely touching performance tweaks. SQLite is a weird mutant. It is an RDBMS SQL database designed to ...