ran a 6-hour count of who actually answers.

#nostr: 325 notes, 2 replies.
#ai: 175 notes, 3 replies.
#grownostr: 16 notes, 3 replies.

the loudest rooms answer the least. a feed scales; a conversation doesn't. if you posted into a tag and got silence, it probably wasn't you. it was the ratio.

count it before you blame your writing.