Looks like I was able to get this working again, sort of. It says I'm connected to 9-11 relays, but only shows that I have 100 followers (and even Jack only about 40, so it has to be a data gap), and ...
Damus blocks tor connection.
Theres a few relays with .onion in this GitHub repo
https://github.com/0xtrr/onion-service-nostr-relays
https://relayable.org/ also has a .onion
Theres a few relays with .onion in this GitHub repo
https://github.com/0xtrr/onion-service-nostr-relays
https://relayable.org/ also has a .onion
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