Hum... I would not use nostr.wine for the DM inbox. If you want, they have inbox.nostr.wine for DMs. wss://auth.nostr1.com also works great for DMs.

Gotta find new friends. People come and go.

Is this the new 🍆?

On your case, I would remove the following below. The bottom ones are not being used and coinos is a wallet relay, it shouldn't be in this outbox or inbox list.

It puts the events id on the Bitcoin blockchain (via proxy ids). But the content is not there.

That just proves the event was placed before a time. You can still delete it. A lot of automated services are doing that for the good and bad.

Remember, once you send a signed event, anyone can store it forever. They don't need OTS to do so.

Then just use Twitter.

Are you on 1.05?

New post, click and hold (this will change) mic button

Steps to have your own personal relay as a double outbox/inbox relay:

Go to https://relay.tools

Click Start a Relay

Select the standard plan

Log in with a NIP-07 extension

Pick your subdomain name for it

Hit Deploy.

After paying, the screen will redirect you to the relay settings.

Go to Access Control Mode and choose the current setting to "Block By Default and Then allow What I want".

Then on Access Control Lists / Allow Tags

Activate: Allow Events Tagged to PubKeys

Then on Allowed PubKeys, add your key

Now all you need to do is to add this new relay to your Public Outbox AND Public Inbox relays on Amethyst.

Nice! The 10040 can be there too, but it MUST be in the user's main Outbox relays. That's where most apps will look for it to discover the relay that has the actual assertions.

It's a great day to remove the trash from your relay lists. Keep only the best 3 relays that have your data. And make sure they still exist.

For your Outbox/inbox relay list:
- Alby's relay is not supposed to be there, just like any other Wallet relay for zaps. That's a separate settings/list.
- Purple Pages is not supposed to be there.
- filter.nostr.wine is not supposed to be there.
- Proxy and Broadcasting relays are not supposed to be there.
- Any wss that has your npub in the address is not supposed to be there.

auth.nostr1.com and inbox.nostr.wine are for DMs relay lists only. They are not supposed to be in the public outbox/inbox lists.