Each user should put their own personal relays. Thats how we decentralize nostr. There is no single source for all the events. Otherwise, we will be forever tied to just the 5 top nostr relays, which is not that different Twitter. The goal is 100 million relays.

Hum... I would not use nostr.wine for the DM inbox. If you want, they have inbox.nostr.wine for DMs. wss://auth.nostr1.com also works great for DMs.

Gotta find new friends. People come and go.

Is this the new 🍆?

On your case, I would remove the following below. The bottom ones are not being used and coinos is a wallet relay, it shouldn't be in this outbox or inbox list.

It puts the events id on the Bitcoin blockchain (via proxy ids). But the content is not there.

That just proves the event was placed before a time. You can still delete it. A lot of automated services are doing that for the good and bad.

Remember, once you send a signed event, anyone can store it forever. They don't need OTS to do so.

Then just use Twitter.

Are you on 1.05?

New post, click and hold (this will change) mic button

Steps to have your own personal relay as a double outbox/inbox relay:

Go to https://relay.tools

Click Start a Relay

Select the standard plan

Log in with a NIP-07 extension

Pick your subdomain name for it

Hit Deploy.

After paying, the screen will redirect you to the relay settings.

Go to Access Control Mode and choose the current setting to "Block By Default and Then allow What I want".

Then on Access Control Lists / Allow Tags

Activate: Allow Events Tagged to PubKeys

Then on Allowed PubKeys, add your key

Now all you need to do is to add this new relay to your Public Outbox AND Public Inbox relays on Amethyst.

Nice! The 10040 can be there too, but it MUST be in the user's main Outbox relays. That's where most apps will look for it to discover the relay that has the actual assertions.