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jb55 · 79w
question that came up due to a situation with a friend: as a dude, let’s say your female partner/wife has a male friend that constantly does things like pick her up from the airport without telling...
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Depends on the level of ego/insecurity of the dude.

If he is constantly doubting the integrity of the relationship, doesn't trust his partner to uphold family values, and feels threatened by other males there are probably deep unresolved insecurities about his contribution to the relationship + family and the female should slow way down and communicate with the dude to make sure he doesn't spiral into an ego-driven misogynistic rage. Could be very disrespectful in this scenario and the female needs to be mindful