I spent time yesterday, doing what I rarely do, reading responses to my message to white women about the expectation of “soft motherhood,” and it reminded me of something:

You can’t learn what it means to be a world traveler from someone who has never left their own borders.

This is why so many white folx rely on other white folx like Brené Brown, Scott Galloway, Robin DiAngelo, and Mel Robbins and still learn very little about how to move through the world without causing harm.