I've only been around for 5 or 6 weeks but this is something that I've always foreseen as happening. Clients are the super tool here. Relays are just dumb backends that the average user doesn't care a...
If one were to make clear some kind of cause and effect to the user relating to what an active selection of relays is responsible for then its kind of easy. I've been messing around on nostr for only a week or so and its not at all clear. Otherwise its pretty awesome :-)