My brother, as an adult, made a decision with his wife to have a baby, & now years later he's a single dad struggling to deal with extreme burnout & overstimulation that *apparently* he wasn't aware w...
I do not know anybody who had previous experiences with kids before having them. Life is hard anyway. If you have kids your energies are toward them instead of yourself, if you don't have them you are following a false dream of being a teenager forever and you will die alone sad and forgotten. Those are the choices but the one with kids is the natural one that gives meaning to our life.