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Neil Brown · 9w
New blogpost (based on a discussion here over the weekend, so some of it might be familiar): "Sex and the Fedi" https://neilzone.co.uk/2026/04/sex-and-the-fedi/ #blog #sex #fediverse
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Aside: sometimes I get worried about following someone, particularly if I post (kind! welcoming!) replies etc., but there is no interaction / response.

At that point, my "worrying about not wanting to be *that* unwanted man on the Internet" kicks in, so I tend to step back, and either or both not reply again, or unfollow.

And then I don't see their stuff, which means I can't promote it / engage with it etc., even if they actually welcomed it but just didn't want to engage.

*sigh*
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Colman Reilly · 9w
nostr:nprofile1qy2hwumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnyd968gmewwp6kyqpq98t8kgwqas59rvmnghzcdn6krzhxhpkyt2mt53e4g9sdnj74sszs6a65q8 if they're open follow they're open follow. If they need to approve followers and approved then they approved it. Either way they can always block you. I don't expect people I follow to ...