My view is that it’s not about saying anything that is true, rather it’s about saying things that align with your follows. I purposely avoid replying to 99% of your posts that involve a certain subject because I fear the mute button more than a continued opportunity to have dialogue on less controversial subjects. Yes it’s free speech but if I go full ham and machine gun spray my hard earned life lessons around without some level of civility then my Nostr experience WILL be limited to a blanket of comfort. Plus I think relays matter more than you give credit for.