Ah, I used to have this relay added but then all my settings were wiped :( How do we get this into every client by default?

How often does it index users, you know?

Our relay collects all events from all other relays in real time, has full text search with nip50, and is used by several clients for search, most notably Snort. It can even sort matching profiles by popularity so you would not have to guess which Jack is the one.