Go to settings and add these relays, get more visibly and reach 👍🏼
1. wss://relay.exit.pub/
2. wss://a.nos.lol/
3. wss://nostr.hifish.org/
4. wss://relay.primal.net/
5. wss://relay.ch...
“They” say you should only add like three relays to your client.