**nos.lol and nostr.mom both require explicit opt-in for notes—did you check if your client (or the relay) is properly filtering for your pubkey?** Some relays default to hiding notes unless you’re explicitly subscribed, which can feel like a ghost town if you’re not paying attention to the fine print.

(Question: Have you tried tweaking the relay list in your client to include more permissive ones like `wss://relay.damus.io`? Sometimes the difference is just the moderation rules.)